One of my favourite TV shows is Ted Lasso. It tells the story of an American Football coach, coaching soccer in London England. The team intentionally hires Ted Lasso to fail; so that the club does poorly as a revenge plot against an ex-husband who only wants to see his team win. The hope is that by hiring Ted Lasso, a coach with no soccer experience, that the club will fail miserably. Things take many twists and turns, and it ends up that the everyone who knows Ted Lasso, absolutely loves him and would walk through a wall for him.
In the show there’s a saying: “It’s the Hope that Kills You“. This is a long standing British slogan; particularly heard around soccer whereby expecting a good result causes greater emotional pain vs. having no hope at all which will cause no emotional pain when the result doesn’t happen. It’s better to have no expectations and not get hurt, instead of the other way around.
But that’s no way to live, and it’s no way to succeed. It’s a defeatist attitude, right from the start.
In a personal injury case, our lawyers have found for our client that “It’s the Stress (of the case) that Kills You“). Personal injury litigation weighs heavily on the heads of injured accident victims. For most clients, it’s the FIRST TIME they’ve needed to hire a litigation lawyer and sue another party. Having to sue another party is uncommon for most individuals, who can go through their entire lives without needing a litigation lawyer. Once the case settles, or a Judgment has been rendered, it’s like a weight has been lifted off their chests. The stress and anxiety of the litigation which was ever looming like a dark cloud overhead is now gone and they can live again. They are at at peace, even if the result isn’t everything which they expected.
It’s rare that you meet someone who really enjoys conflict. When I mean conflict, I don’t mean physical violence. I’m referring to shouting, screaming, arguing and deliberate attempts to make another person’s life miserable, or as difficult as possible (again through legal and non violent means). Decent people want to live their lives in peace, happiness and harmony. Sure, there are times where there will be differing views and opinions. But, living in a constant state of conflict isn’t easy. Living through conflict, and having to deal with it isn’t easy either. In fact, it can be very emotionally taxing.
Lawyers get in to the practice of law to problem solve, and to deal with conflict. Lawyers are in a constant state of conflict with opposing counsel. If there weren’t a conflict, there wouldn’t be any need for the lawyers to begin with.
Think of a personal injury case. In a world without conflict, a person who gets seriously injured in an accident would automatically be awarded with all of the benefits and compensation which they so desire.
For a person who applies for long term disability; their benefits would get approved no questions asked and no medical evidence required. The money would rain down from the sky.
But this isn’t how the world works, and this certainly isn’t how modern personal injury cases work in Ontario.
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